look my dear << honestlly i don't know if i understood what you do mean or not.
You said :the answer is obvious, such as my brother, what i heard from that woman is diagnosed>>
which answer do you mean ? And what is the diagnosis ?!!
((what needs all this research you)) do you mean what is the need of this research ??
This is not a research my brother ,,it's not more than questions , and i'm just trying to understand why our sisters and mothers do such a habit which makes my (sometime ) angry...... Got it ?
I'm really wondering, why do you asked my to answer in english ??
I hope, you not trying to examine my english


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We have to be proud by our language >> it's the best my brother >>believe me